Eight Things Couples Need in Recovery and Why Your Goals are Causing You to Fail

Eight Things Couples Need in Recovery and Why Your Goals are Causing You to Fail

Dr. Adam Moore, LMFT

When couples begin the process of recovery from one partner’s pornography addiction, many struggle to make progress. Couples often find themselves stuck and don’t know what to do next. In this presentation, I will share what years of therapy experience have taught me about what actually works. We will discuss why the nature of goal setting can get in the way of succeeding in recovery, and why processes are better than goals. I will share an example of an eight-item process that you can start using today to get unstuck.

Dr. Adam M. Moore is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. He is assistant director of Brigham Young University’s comprehensive clinic and clinical director of Utah Valley Counseling, where he almost exclusively specializes in treating pornography and sex addiction. He frequently works helping people through the effects of extramarital affairs. Dr. Moore has taught at Brigham Young University, Utah Valley University, and Argosy University. He is the recipient of two research awards from the American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy and is currently President-Elect of that organization.

He has published papers in academic journals with a national readership and presented at conferences on topics related to marriage and family therapy in California, Tennessee, Oregon, and Utah.